Ask questions: it is important that you take questions on the subject that is developing, but be careful here, because you do it so interview work, where a question is followed by a concrete response and moves to the next. The opposite is best ask questions that give foot to her continue, freely with his story. This will give you the pattern that these attentive conversation and therefore that you are interested in this. With this attitude, you will relax and start enjoying this encounter. It covers topics that are on common ground or things of general interest. Avoid by all means touching topics that might generate discord or controversy. As an example I can mention some topics to avoid: politics, religion, social conditions, etc. Having a positive attitude and attitude leave social labels at home (or in a drawer). Many people can tell immediately if you have a negative attitude or if you feel superior. So always try to others as you would like to be treated. And it gives each person a chance. No woman a man who belittles her or have an attitude towards life completely negative can attract you. Provide opportunity to encourage your girl to share anything with you.

Some women are timid, without experience in the communication simply are afraid of making mistakes. It would be a great step to give him the opportunity to share. For this reason, both with body language and verbal communication, invite them to an Exchange. Let it tell you their story, their projects and aspirations, listen to it carefully, your eyes looking toward their own, carefully (not very clear) and promotes a conversation with a warm smile. 4 Listening to it is an active listener. No approaches your thoughts on what you say below. Listen to what she is saying and also takes care of your body language. For example, if you cross arms and make annoying sounds, you will give the impression that the topic you are interested in. This will cause distance between both and maybe a cold on the envelope difficult conversation. You have to achieve that you lean towards you, after each word and communication is given as if they were old friends. Believe it or not you’ve built a relationship! 5. Only make him a compliment. Like all women to receive compliments. And the truth is that men give them when they do not know who else say. It is very important that you stop you one second here, only dale a compliment at the end of this appointment not only halagara but that it will also make it stay with a good memory of this meeting. That if that compliment has to be totally sincere, but can cause the opposite effect. Sincerely, Ricardo Lopez more information original author and source of the article.